Wed. Dec 11th, 2019

4 Reasons Why I’m Okay With My Bi-Sexual Partner Cheating On Me With Same Sex

A cheating bi-sexual is as bad as a cheating mono-sexual but the tendency to cheat is not higher as in mono-sexual.

I can overhear you saying, ‘no, that’s not my spouse’. He can’t possibly be into same sex and still rock my world.

In as much as it is cheating, the act being done by same sex doesn’t change the fact that it’s okay for you not to feel betrayed, unsettled, have a deep sense of loss, get  irritated and nostalgic.

It’s okay, you can cry all you want, you’re only being human.

Even though bisexuals are attracted to two sexes, this doesn’t mean that they are attracted to everyone.

They have limits and standards too just like heterosexuals.

Some bisexuals are equally attracted to both sexes, but others have mixed attractions.

For instance, they feel more romantically attracted to one gender and physically attracted to the other.

Why is your heart racing? Religious conflict, family or society? What are your worries?

He or she might leave you for another (same sex)? Well, bi-sexual persons aren’t necessarily promiscuous. They too date one step at a time.

But here’s the gist,

Bi-sexual people aren’t gay. They can still love you sufficiently. (So, if that’s your problem, then you don’t have a one)

What if I say it is okay, I mean not less demeaning for a spouse to cheat with same sex? Except if cheating is the bone of contention.

In as much as people have their opinion pertaining this controversial topic, I believe those who are bisexuals have a life too. And, if that’s how they choose to live their lives, you should embrace it.

My Reasons Are:

His choice is you out of a million heterosexual persons: of course, why you? Well, that’s rhetoric. I can’t truly answer that. Being hetero-sexual is beautiful, being bi-sexual is equally beautiful. Your partner is definitely not with you to hide from the world. He chooses to love you. If you are a female, he’s not with you for the flavor of your lady bits as it is with in so many hetero- sexual relationships. Your partner  wishes for  you to be mild enough to understand his turn-ons and sexuality. And hey, it doesn’t mean that you aren’t good enough for him/her. You are amazingly beautiful. Don’t be so hardened, a bi can’t be attracted to just everyone just because he’s attracted to both sexes.

  • Freedom: huh! To be free from heart aches is awesome. You have no idea the joy that fills a heart knowing that your partner with all the physical features can’t be easily turned-on by another opposite sex. If your girlfriend is a bi, it’s an absolute joy to walk around a mall with her, seeing an attractive person and have both of you turn around to see her walk by. Well, this isn’t just hilarious but trust me, it is fun.
  • A bi partner is honest and more open: wow! Did I really say that? Or should I rephrase? Honesty doesn’t comes with sexuality. But for your partner to be open to you pertaining his/her sexuality, he/she is willing to hold onto his /her relationship with you. Your partner has shown you that he’s not with you based on sexuality, but if you feel otherwise of what your relationship entails then you should quit. I know that was harsh to say, but, let’s be honest, you wouldn’t hang on if you aren’t ready to accept his sexuality.
  • A bi-partner is better in bed: a gay tends to be more creative than heterosexuals. Heterosexual men often never go beyond penis-in-vagina sex, apparently, but gay men rarely start with sex and some spend more time on foreplay.And for ladies, this is game-on.

KALU, ONYINYECHI PECULIAR.

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